It’s Not a Knowledge Gap Around Food or Exercise

It’s Not a Knowledge Gap Around Food or Exercise

 

Women over 40 – no new meal plan or exercise plan to lose weight needed.

Yes, really.  Women over 40 – no new meal plan or  exercise plan needed to lose weight.

Most weight loss programs give you a meal plan and an exercise plan – as if the problem is that you don’t know that vegetables and walking are good for you!

​But you know that.

As a woman over 40, you know enough of the basics around nutrition and exercise to maintain a healthy lifestyle and healthy weight.

You've studied enough about nutrition and exercise.

All you have to do is do what you taught your kids to do.

Eat your veggies.  Go for a walk.  Get a good night's sleep.

These basics of healthy living are all you need to do to lose weight as a woman over 40, especially once you learn about how your hormones work and are changing and how to balance all that out with some simple tweaks to how you live to let you have weight loss in a healthy and sustainable way.

What you don’t know is how to get yourself to do what you already know you should be doing.

​It’s a behavior change problem, NOT a knowledge problem.

​And I am an expert in figuring out and removing what’s blocking your ability to choose and enjoy the new behavior.

​Weight loss is possible for women over 40.  I know, because I lost 50 pounds in 2020 at age 46 in the midst of a pandemic, when everyone else was gaining weight.

So why does the diet industry insist women over 40 need a new meal plan and a new exercise plan to lose weight? 

Simple – because that's what they sell.

Meal plans, recipes, pills, supplements, exercise plans, work out videos – these are all scalable solutions that companies can develop once and then sell over and over very profitably and affordably.

The work we do together of deep diving into your psyche, uncovering what's been blocking your weight loss, healing your past, helping your inner child, changing the thoughts and feelings that have been causing you to stress eat or emotional eat – that's not as easy to produce in a factory and commodify.

But it may just be the work that changes the rest of your life had helps you lose weight and improve your health for the rest of your life.

And it's a skill set that translates to the rest of your life as well.

So when I tell you, hey women over 40 – no new meal plan or exercise plan needed to lose weight, I say it because it was true for me, it's been true for my clients, and therefore I truly believe it will also be true for you.

Let's work on it together.

​I'm here to help.

Schedule a time to get started here -> https://LisaDuke.net/schedule​

 

 

The Hormone That’s Keeping Us Overweight

The Hormone That’s Keeping Us Overweight

Wondering why you can't lose weight as a 45 year old female?  Turns out most of what we've learned was wrong.

If you are like my client, Susan*, a 45 year old female, you may find you just can't lose weight.

Part of the reason is that the way we were trained is just… wrong, especially once we get into our 40s and 50s, when as women our hormones start to get wacky.

Were you taught to:

– Eat low fat. 

– Eat every two hours so you don't get hungry and overeat. 

It turns out most of what we were taught about how to eat to lose weight is exactly the opposite of what science and experience are showing us actually works, and one specific hormone is a lot of the reason why.

Now by way of disclaimer, I'm not a doctor or a nutritionist, and in fact I haven't even stayed in a Holiday Inn Express.  So please do your own research in addition to reading what I'm sharing, but this insight was a big part of my weight loss success and is helping my clients, so I share it with the hope that it will help you, too.

One of the main hormones you need to understand if you want to lose weight is insulin.

Insulin is basically our body's response to sugar in the blood.

When we get a normal, natural amount of sugar, such as what's in fruit, our body goes to work moving that energy out of our blood and into our muscles (to use as quick energy) and then into fat cells, to be stored for future use.

After storing all that sugar, insulin levels drop back down.  Once they do, your body can use that energy in your muscles to do things like take you on a walk or  power your brain while you think about this blog post.

When sugar gets used up and insulin is low, your body can then access stored fat for additional energy.  It's like a second fuel tank for emergencies!

The problem is, if we overeat at every meal (without realizing it), eat lots of refined sugar and flour (which breaks down into sugar), and are almost constantly snacking, our insulin never drops down and our body never switches from fat storage mode to fat burning mode.

Now this is very much a layman's explanation, but thinking about what I was eating and when I was eating it with an understanding that I had to get out of fat storage mode and into fat burning mode helped me eat more veggies, lean protein, and plant-based fat, smaller portions, and helped me snack less. 

So at the end of the day even if I don't quite have the science right, if this thought supported me in doing what I needed to do to lose weight, that's good enough for me.

Do you see how for a 45 year old female, getting your blood sugar down so your insulin can go down and you can access your stored fat for fuel will help you lose weight?

*client name changed for privacy.

Looking for other thoughts that will help you do what you need to do to get to your ideal healthy weight?  Let's work together.  Schedule a free initial consultation at https://lisaduke.net/schedule

 

 

 

How to Create a New Habit

How to Create a New Habit

Create healthy habits and you'll be on auto-pilot to your goal.

Wondering how to create new healthy habits?

 

The art and science of creating new habits are keys to weight loss as a woman over 40.

 

To create new healthy habits, it's important to understand the components of a habit.

The components of a habit break down into cue, behavior, and reward.  Once you are able to put all 3 of these pieces into play, you’ll be able to create a new habit in no time.  And once you have the right habits, getting to your goal is easy.

 

So the cue piece is what will remind you to do the new behavior.  That cue might be a reminder on your calendar or your phone.  It might be a Post-It Note on your bathroom mirror.

 

The behavior is the new thing that you want to do on autopilot.  For weight loss, it might be something like drinking more water or going on a walk around the block during the mid-afternoon to wake you back up for the final stretch of the workday.

 

The reward is what makes it stick.  It can be as simple as thinking “YES!” to yourself when you complete the behavior.  Or it could be a quick text to your friend or your coach to celebrate you success.  Whatever you use as a way to celebrate helps your brain realize that this was important.  The emotion is what helps it get stored and repeated by the subconscious brain.

 

By using the 3 components of a habit to reprogram your brain, you'll create new healthy habits in no time to speed you on your way to weight loss as a woman over 40.

 If you are ready to get started working with me, schedule a call.

Step 1 of the ACE Weight Loss Methodology

Step 1 of the ACE Weight Loss Methodology

As a woman over 40, are you looking for an innovative approach to weight loss?  Try the ACE Weight Loss Methodology, developed by and for women over 40 to help them lose weight.

Most traditional weight loss programs give you a meal plan and an exercise plan, but they don't give you additional willpower to follow those weight loss plans.

What you need is an understanding of what's blocking your ability to eat healthy foods, get in healthy movement, and take the time and invest the money to improve your health.  The ACE Weight Loss Methodology was designed to do exactly that.

Step 1 of this proprietary weight loss methodology is AWARENESS.

​If you are trying to lose weight, I actually recommend you eat when you are hungry (I know, crazy talk, right?!?).

​The flip side of that is I recommend you don't eat when you aren't hungry.

​Instead, take some time to ask why, if you are not hungry and you want to lose weight, you are about to eat.

​It may be as simple as marketing.

​Who exactly told us breakfast was the most important meal of the day? Was it someone selling cereal?

​What if you were to delay breakfast until you felt hunger? That may be a very easy way to extend your fast, keep your blood sugar low, and keep you in fat burning mode instead of fat storage mode.

​Why are you snacking in front of the TV after dinner?

​Is it because you did that growing up, and now you get warm fuzzies from popcorn with a movie? If so, could you keep the memory, but drop the snack?

​After you bring this first level of mindfulness to your eating, you may be able to break a lot of habits and start to lose weight.

​Or you may find something deeper coming to the surface.

​I personally noticed when my husband works late, I tend to get a snack as a way to reduce boredom.

​When he doesn't work late and wants to do an extended TV marathon, I may get snacks to deal with restlessness.

​When you decide to cut out eating when you are not hungry, those feelings come to the surface, and you can start to find zero calorie ways to deal with them.

​That's how I help my clients through the AWARENESS phase.

​Is this the kind of support you need to lose weight? If so, book a free initial consultation to get your questions answered and to sign up for my program.

​Go to https://lisaduke.net/schedule to find a time that works for you today.

Why You Can’t Stop Emotional Eating

Why You Can’t Stop Emotional Eating

 Women over 40, are you wondering how to stop emotional eating?   I lost 50 pounds at age 46 by learning why I was emotional eating.  Once I understood why I was eating emotionally, I was able to stop, and once I stopped eating for non-hunger reasons, the weight came off with ease.

 You see, what the mind wants and what the nervous system wants can be two different things.

This is one of the biggest challenges that gets in the way of weight loss.

The mind wants to change the eating patterns to lose weight, but if the nervous system needs those patterns to feel safe, the nervous system usually wins.

Your body's need to feel safer by emotionally eating will trump your mind's desire to lose weight every single time.

 So what's the secret to how to stop emotional eating?

 You need to discover alternative approaches to make yourself feel better without eating emotionally.

That's why EFT tapping can be so helpful. I believe it calms the nervous system.

If you're feeling stressed or anxious, or just bored and restless, you need a way to regulate your nervous system.

What do you use now to regulate your nervous system? 

If it's more wine or more food than you know is good for you, you're not bad, broken, or weak.

You aren't lacking in willpower.

You just need additional tools.

 You can't stop emotional eating as long at it is the only solution you have to a very real problem.

 Coming up with a different solution to the problem your emotional eating is solving today is how to stop emotional eating.

I have other solutions.

I can teach them to you.

Let's work together.

https://LisaDuke.net/schedule to start.

Secrets of Women Over 40 Who Are Losing Weight

Secrets of Women Over 40 Who Are Losing Weight

Women over 40 losing weight?

It may sound too good to be true, but women over 40 are losing weight.

It's true.

Want to learn how?

This is your final reminder: our exclusive Q&A webinar with Lisa Duke from Weight University is happening soon, and we don't want you to miss out on the valuable insights, live demonstrations, and exclusive offers she's prepared just for you so that you can learn the secrets of women over 40 losing weight.

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​During the free event, you'll receive additional information on the course and how EFT tapping can help clear the weight loss blocks that are keeping you stuck out of your way.  Changing your beliefs can lead to mental, emotional, spiritual, and even physical transformation and abundant health.

This is your last opportunity to dive deep into the “Break Free from Overeating with EFT” program, get your questions answered, and unlock the secrets to a healthier, happier you in 2024. Lisa will be there to guide you every step of the way!

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Secrets of Women Over 40 Who Are Losing Weight

Crush Your New Year’s Resolutions: Weight Loss for Women Over 40

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Relaxing Isn’t Indulgent, It’s a Requirement

Relaxing Isn’t Indulgent, It’s a Requirement

Despite what the culture has taught us, not only are you allowed to relax, relaxing is actually a requirement for nervous system healing.

Always going going going can be a trauma response – either flight (stay in movement), or fawn (if you’re busy trying to make everyone else happy).

Take a minute for yourself today – even if it’s just three deep breaths or a few rounds of EFT while you’re hiding in the bathroom.

 Don't know how?

 Think it can't be done in YOUR life?

 I can help you see how.

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Secrets of Women Over 40 Who Are Losing Weight

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Resenting the People You Love Most is Not the Vibe

Resenting the People You Love Most is Not the Vibe

Resenting the people you love most is not the vibe.

When we always put ourselves last and put others first, at some point we have nothing left.

And when we have nothing left to give, we lash out to protect ourselves.

That lashing out is often aimed at those we love most, because that's where it's most safe and because they are the ones we've let step all over us.

But what if we were more confident?

More able to ask for what we want?

More willing to sit in the discomfort of renegotiating our roles and responsibilities, at home and at work?

It might first get worse.

But what if it then got so much better?

This is bigger than weight loss.

This is reducing what's making us feel bad, so that we don't need a cookie to feel better.

Voluntary discomfort now, for more balance and power then.

With food, with work, with life.

Let's shift things now, so our daughters don't have to live like this.

So WE don't have to live like this.

It's possible.

I can help.

https://LisaDuke.net/schedule to start.