Tarot-Led Coaching

Tarot-Led Coaching

Uh-oh.  She's gone to the woo.

And now for something completely different – introducing Tarot-led coaching. 

For those who know me, you know I've spent my career in IT, and I grew up in Arkansas – both places where anything “woo-woo” is looked upon with great suspicion.  It is at best bullsh!t, and at worst Satanic.

If you know me from those parts of my life, fear not, I have become neither feeble-minded nor evil.

 I have, however, always been curious and open minded, and I love to learn new things and share them.

 One of the many things I've been studying while mostly stuck at home (yay, pandemic) has been tarot card reading.  I've studied the meanings of the cards and of their positions in the layout I use.  I've also studied ThetaHealing and use that to access my intuition.

I think of the cards a bit like the ink blot tests psychiatrists use.  The images are subject to interpretation.  I don't just tell the clients what they mean.  I give them the background information on the card, the layout, and what in the image is standing out to me, and then I let them check out the card for themselves.

We then use that as a jumping off point for what becomes a coaching session.

 I find many new clients may not have anything top of mind that they want to discuss, or they may be reluctant to bring topics up to a stranger.  By having the cards as a starting point, the issues that the client has been working on in the background of their minds often come up for resolution.

So yeah, it's a departure from my logical IT side and my bible-belt wearing side.  But we all have many sides, and I find the tarot-led coaching session is a fun way to get clients talking, to help them access their intuition, and to bring issues to the surface. 

Want to try it out?  Schedule a $100 Tarot-led coaching session today!

 

 

 

Credit is Not Your Emergency Fund

Credit is Not Your Emergency Fund

“I don't need to save for emergencies.  If there's an emergency, I'll use credit.” 

I was on Facebook recently and a guy said he'd just paid off his credit cards and wondered if he should focus next on paying off low interest rate debt, like a mortgage, or if he should focus on investing.

Ummm…. aren't we forgetting something here?  What about the emergency fund?

Now I know the emergency fund is boring.  It's money you can't spend (boo) and it's not making you a lot of money (boo).  I get it.  This is one of my personal weak areas as well.

But you need access to liquid cash savings for a few reasons.

1.  In a downturn, banks will reduce risk by reducing access to credit.  This is already starting.  A card we rarely use contacted us saying they were going to close the account if we didn't use the card soon.  A friend who does the points thing with credit cards just had a bunch of cards shut down by the issuing bank because he “wasn't using them the way they were meant to be used.”  They didn't mind one bit when the economy was good, but now, they are reducing their exposure.

In a downturn, banks usually fail.  At least a few of them.  If your bank fails, your checking and savings balances are backed by the FDIC.  However, your access to credit is not.  In the Great Recession the bank we used for our IT consulting company failed and the bank that took over “chose not to reopen” our business credit cards AND they shut down the line of credit we had with them to provide us with float.  And by the way, when things like this happens, the bank wants to get paid back right away.  Do you want to be scurrying around trying to get more credit so you can pay off that credit?  Isn't it nicer not to have the debt AND to have some extra cash?

I haven't paid much attention to this, but I'm pretty sure the issuing banks have already started reducing the credit lines we have available to us on some of our cards.  Check your statements and see if they've done the same to you.

2.  If you use credit as your emergency fund, you will come out of the downturn with debt.  Which means your first order of business will be paying off debt.  Which means you are going to be right where you are now again in 10 years.  The only way to get out of this cycle is not to run up debt.

3.  Debt comes with payments that are not optional.  If I have to use half of my emergency fund, I should immediately start paying myself back, but if I can't, it can wait.  With debt, I should immediately start paying the bank yet, and they aren't going to be flexible about that.  You are committing your cash flow to someone else at a time when you need it most.

4.  If you borrow from yourself in an emergency, it's going to be a 0% loan.  If you borrow from the bank, it's going to be higher than that. 

You will never win with money if compound interest is working AGAINST you.  You need to get in a position where compound interest is working for you.

 5.  There will be opportunities that come out of a downturn that are only available if you have cash.  In the Great Recession our second mortgage lender was willing to forgive a portion of the principal of the loan if we paid it off.   We were able to do that with CASH. 

In a downturn those who don't have cash look to generate it buy selling things (usually toys first).  If you have your financial house in order and also have extra cash, you can buy those things while they are on sale. 

As always, you are free to make your own choices, but I've been through several of these cycles now and can tell you, we weren't able to really build wealth until we stopped focusing on building debts.

 Are you ready to take control of your personal finances?  Would you like some help?  If so, schedule a call with me to learn more.

 

Q & A on Investing – Crowdfunding & Stock Options

Q & A on Investing – Crowdfunding & Stock Options

 Crowdfunding and stock options – not my bag, baby.

 

Wondering about real estate crowdfunding and stock options?  Refocus on the basics and know when to hire the right professional help for best results.

 

Q:  “Thoughts on investing in real estate crowdfunding and if worth doing for diversification in your portfolio?”

I don’t do this and I don’t think it’s worth doing, although of course you are allowed to do whatever you want. 

Instead of looking for jazzy new ideas (where we have a hard time measuring the risk and that may not be regulated), what if we were to REALLY commit to doing the boring things that we know work?

If you really want to play, do it AFTER your retirement is secure with EXTRA money, not before your retirement is secure with money you need to use to build your foundation.

In my opinion, if investing is exciting, you are doing it wrong.  If you want excitement, go to Six Flags.  🙂

 

Q:  “Can you describe tax risks/benefits of exercising early stock options? How early? Any downside to buying these up steadily as we vest?

 No. 🙂

As a financial coach and educator, my focus is on getting folks to pay down debt, build their emergency funds, and to learn about investing (and helping them overcome the mental roadblocks to doing this).  I’m neither qualified nor licensed to give investing advice.

I would suggest you check in with HR and see what resources they have available to you (including perhaps a referral to someone who can help).

 For tax advice, a CPA is your best bet.

 For investment advice, I would suggest working with a financial planner or advisor.  Remember that a project-based financial planner is a thing if you want someone to help you with just this question (rather than an ongoing relationship).  However, even a project based financial planner will need to gather information about your overall financial situation to give you the proper suggestions, so don’t be surprised if they want a lot of information before answering this question.

 To learn more about whether or not I'm the right professional to help you with your money and business goals, schedule a call with me today.